PURPOSE OVER PAIN LLC

Empowering Transformation Through Purpose
Purpose Over Pain

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I’m Ransom Kong.

Grandson of two abusive grandfathers. Grandson of two grandmothers who were victims of domestic violence.  Son of an abusive father.  Son of a domestic violence inflicted mother.  Victim of child abuse. Son with a anxious and avoidant attachment to his parents.  Youngest of seven children.  Second of two boys.  Simultaneously, an aggressive and kind teenager.  Overachiever, and master of none.  Adult with a kind demeanor until my buttons were pushed.  I felt like a volcano erupting when I held things in too long.  Exploded and made everyone fear me.

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Former abusive and perpetrator of partner violence as a  boyfriend and ex-husband.   Perpetrator  of child abuse to my children in their early years.
Worked at Women's Refuge.  
Witnessed the damage that anger and domestic violence and what I caused.  
Running anger groups for over 25 years.  

I was the perpetrator.  
Then I became the Forge Master.

Purpose Over Pain isn’t a cute tagline.  
It’s my life.  
I took the same rage that almost destroyed everything and forged it into the path that saved me — and now helps other men.   
This isn’t another feel-good program.  

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This is doing the work like I have learned what works.  It's continuous pushing and pulling to make the most of your time.  There are times to laugh with self effacement, moments of pain while diving down into the belly of the aggression beast, there is the push of the immovable object which is you and the pull of your irresistible force that wants to expressively live.  It is purpose coaching with meaning.  Finally, there will be a gentle wind that cools you after the forge.  You have become more of who you are meant to be.  You have the work ethic; it will be inside you.  You have the awareness, the skills, the will, and your north star forever shining brightly so you can continually become and be.  The iterative transformation process that itself becomes a victorious living, breathing story.  Your narrative.  Your legacy.  

This is a forge.

Three stages.

Rage to Reign → Forged → Forged King Bundle  
 

 
One outcome: the pain stops with you.

If you’re a man who’s tired of waking up ashamed,  
tired of watching your anger hurt the people you love most,  
tired of carrying your father’s rage and passing it to your kids…

You’re in the right place.

I don’t fix surface problems.  
I help end bloodlines of destruction.

I’ve done it for myself.  
I’ve done it for iron workers, cops, wealthy businessmen, mechanics, ex-cons, divorced dads — men from every walk who all had one thing in common:  Seemingly uncontrollable
rage they were a helpless slave to and pain they refused to pass on.

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The forge is open to any man willing to step in and do the work.

No judgment.  
No excuses.  
Just hammer, fire, and the crown waiting on the other side.

If you’re ready to turn your trauma into a throne,  
you’re ready for Purpose Over Pain.

The gate is narrow.  
The transformation is real.

Step in.