
PURPOSE OVER PAIN LLC
Empowering Transformation Through Purpose
Welcome to Purpose Over Pain, your trusted partner in transforming life’s challenges into a purpose-driven future. Our online life coaching, counseling, and motivational speaking services empower individuals struggling with addiction, social disconnection, tech overload, anger, and abuse issues to find healing, resilience, and meaning. Based on a holistic, heart-centered approach, we guide you to overcome pain and live with intention, offering personalized support through virtual programs accessible worldwide.

This is a space to express our commitment to your transformation journey, offering a range of services designed to meet your unique needs. Our dedicated team is passionate about helping you discover your purpose and live a fulfilling life. We strive to create a supportive community where you can share your experiences and connect with others on a similar path. Your feedback and engagement are integral to our continuous improvement and evolution. Join us in embracing growth and empowerment.
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POP GHME Journal prompts:
1. Gut: What’s pulling me? Heart: What’s warming me? Mind: What’s clarifying? Energy: Feel the surge.
Logic: The gut provides raw instinct for authentic drive, the heart offers emotional warmth for safety, the mind sharpens logical clarity, and energy surges when all three align, strengthening self-awareness and agility in handling stressors.
2. Gut: Lie still, listen low. Heart: Feel beat slow. Mind: Thoughts quiet? Energy: Breath evens out.
Logic: Lying still accesses gut whispers unfiltered for self-awareness; slowing the heart beat signals emotional trust; quieting the mind prevents overthinking; even breathing integrates the system for calm congruency and efficient stress management.
3. Gut: Pull-yes or no? Heart: Lift-want it? Mind: Nudge-smart? Energy: Vote seals it.
Logic: The gut’s binary pull roots in primal yes/no for simple sovereignty; the heart’s lift gauges passion; the mind’s nudge adds smarts; majority vote aligns without debate for fast and true decision-making.
4. Gut: String tightens down. Heart: Floats up soft. Mind: Centers steady. Energy: Tug into line.
Logic: String imagery ties gut’s grounding force to heart’s lift; mind centers for balance; tug creates flow-energy lines up like a compass pointing home, enhancing personal transformation and adaptability.
5. Gut: Clench? Let go. Heart: Sink? Rise up. Mind: Buzz? Silence. Energy: Neutral word.
Logic: Releasing gut clench fosters instinctual freedom, rising from heart sink builds emotional resilience, silencing mind buzz brings clarity, and finding neutral energy achieves alignment, allowing efficient information processing.
6. Gut: Inhale-ground. Heart: Climb-love. Mind: Peak-know. Energy: Exhale-merge.
Logic: Inhaling grounds the gut for stability, climbs the heart with love for connection, peaks the mind with knowledge, and exhaling merges energy, promoting focus for self-awareness and agility.
7. Gut: Fear? Name it. Heart: Hope? Claim it. Mind: Maybe? Test it. Energy: One-line clash.
Logic: Naming gut fear acknowledges instincts, claiming heart hope builds emotional strength, testing mind maybe validates logic, and resolving energy clash in one line integrates the system, improving stressor handling.
8. Gut: Circle-anchor here. Heart: Circle-feel here. Mind: Circle-think here. Energy: Own the ring.
Logic: Circling anchors gut instincts, feels heart emotions, thinks mind logic, and owns the energy ring for holistic integration, strengthening self-awareness and fostering authentic leadership.
9. Gut: Spill raw urge. Heart: Spill real ache. Mind: Spill cold truth. Energy: Dump uncut.
Logic: Spilling gut urges promotes primal honesty, heart aches for emotional release, mind truths for rational insight, and dumping energy uncut clears blockages, aligning for greater agility and decision-making.
10. Gut: Knot forms-pause. Heart: Flutter-check pulse. Mind: Agree-nod. Energy: Stall or go.
Logic: Pausing at gut knots allows instinctual reflection, checking heart flutter assesses emotional pulse, nodding mind agreement adds logic, and deciding energy stall or go achieves alignment, enhancing efficiency in changing environments.
11. Gut: What’s gnawing quiet? Heart: What’s blooming soft? Mind: What’s sharpening fast? Energy: Ride the wave.
Logic: Quiet gnawing reveals gut instincts, soft blooming uncovers heart emotions, fast sharpening hones mind logic, and riding the energy wave integrates them for self-awareness and adaptive leadership.
12. Gut: Hand on fire-where? Heart: Hand on glow-stay? Mind: Hand on ice-think? Energy: Hands link calm.
Logic: Hand placement locates gut fire for drive, heart glow for sustained emotion, mind ice for cool thinking, and linking hands for calm energy, promoting integration to handle stressors efficiently.
13. Gut: Instinct roars loud. Heart: Passion hums warm. Mind: Logic clicks sharp. Energy: Roar into yes.
Logic: Gut instinct roaring builds primal power, heart passion humming warmly fosters connection, mind logic clicking sharply provides clarity, and energy roaring into yes supports aligned action, fostering agility and influence.
14. Gut: Tether drops low. Heart: Tether lifts light. Mind: Tether knots true. Energy: Pull the loop tight.
Logic: Tethering gut low grounds stability, heart light uplifts emotion, mind true knots logic, and pulling energy tight loops the system, strengthening self-awareness and personal power.
15. Gut: Squeeze-release now. Heart: Drop-lift now. Mind: Static-clear now. Energy: Reset in breath.
Logic: Squeezing and releasing gut tension promotes freedom, dropping and lifting heart builds resilience, clearing mind static enhances focus, and resetting energy in breath aligns the system, improving decision-making efficiency.
16. Gut: Breathe-root deep. Heart: Breathe-open wide. Mind: Breathe-clear space. Energy: Flow unbroken.
Logic: Breathing roots gut deep for stability, opens heart wide for empathy, clears mind space for thought, and maintains unbroken energy flow, integrating for optimal agility.
17. Gut: Panic? Label it. Heart: Joy? Claim it. Mind: Doubt? Probe it. Energy: Let them duke out.
Logic: Labeling gut panic manages instincts, claiming heart joy builds emotional strength, probing mind doubt applies logic, and letting energy duke out conflicts achieves resolution and alignment for better stress handling.
18. Gut: Circle-protect this. Heart: Circle-feed this. Mind: Circle-guard this. Energy: Circle owns me.
Logic: Circling protects gut instincts, feeds heart emotions, guards mind thoughts, and owns energy in a full circle, promoting holistic integration and authentic self-awareness.
19. Gut: First drip truth. Heart: Next drip ache. Mind: Last drip reason. Energy: Flood it raw.
Logic: Dripping gut truth first encourages honesty, heart ache next for release, mind reason last for insight, and flooding raw energy unblocks, aligning for transformative agility.
20. Gut: Twist-stop now. Heart: Skip-feel now. Mind: Match-decide now. Energy: Freeze or fly.
Logic: Stopping at gut twist allows reflection, feeling heart skip checks pulse, deciding mind match applies logic, and choosing energy freeze or fly integrates, enhancing efficiency in dynamic situations.
21. Gut: What’s churning slow? Heart: What’s fluttering quick? Mind: What’s sparking bright? Energy: Stir the mix.
Logic: Slow churning uncovers gut depths, quick fluttering reveals heart dynamics, bright sparking ignites mind ideas, and stirring energy mixes them for self-aware, agile leadership.
22. Gut: Hand down-sink. Heart: Hand up-rise. Mind: Hand side-balance. Energy: Hands sync pulse.
Logic: Hand down sinks into gut, up rises heart, side balances mind, and syncing pulses for energy integrates to improve function and stressor response.
23. Gut: Pull hard-hold? Heart: Pull soft-lean? Mind: Pull smart-check? Energy: Pull together wins.
Logic: Hard gut pull tests hold, soft heart pull encourages lean, smart mind pull checks logic, and pulling together wins energy, fostering alignment for better interactions and decisions.
24. Gut: String drops-ground. Heart: String rises-lift. Mind: String binds-link. Energy: String vibrates full.
Logic: String dropping grounds gut, rising lifts heart, binding links mind, and vibrating full energy resonates the system, strengthening self-awareness and adaptability.
25. Gut: Grip tight-loosen. Heart: Fall low-climb. Mind: Hiss loud-mute. Energy: Snap back whole.
Logic: Gripping and loosening gut promotes flexibility, falling and climbing heart builds resilience, hissing and muting mind brings calm, and snapping back whole energy achieves complete alignment and agility.
26. Gut: Notice any churning without judgment. Heart: Observe warmth rising gently. Mind: Watch thoughts float by. Energy: Feel the steady hum emerge.
Logic: Noticing gut churning without judgment builds mindful awareness of instincts; observing heart warmth fosters emotional presence; watching mind thoughts float promotes detachment; feeling energy hum integrates for calm, resilient alignment.
27. Gut: Breathe into your belly, sensing instincts arise. Heart: Feel your chest expand with each breath. Mind: Note mental chatter softening. Energy: Allow vitality to flow evenly.
Logic: Breathing into gut senses instincts mindfully for grounding; feeling heart expansion encourages emotional openness; noting mind chatter softening reduces overthinking; allowing even energy flow achieves balanced, present congruency.
28. Gut: Mindfully scan for pulls—yes or no? Heart: Observe emotional lifts emerging. Mind: Watch nudges clarify slowly. Energy: Let the vote seal with calm presence.
Logic: Mindful gut scan for pulls roots decisions in primal awareness; observing heart lifts gauges passion gently; watching mind nudges clarify promotes logical flow; sealing energy vote with presence ensures aligned, stress-free choices.
29. Gut: Anchor awareness in your lower body. Heart: Sense soft floating in your center. Mind: Focus on steady centering here. Energy: Tug mindfully into alignment.
Logic: Anchoring awareness in gut grounds instincts; sensing heart floating builds emotional balance; focusing mind centering enhances clarity; tugging energy mindfully creates integrated flow like a present compass.
30. Gut: Observe clench, then release fully. Heart: Notice sink, then rise openly. Mind: Watch buzz fade to silence. Energy: Find neutral in this moment.
Logic: Observing gut clench and release fosters instinctual freedom mindfully; noticing heart sink and rise builds resilient presence; watching mind buzz fade brings clear silence; finding neutral energy aligns in the now.
31. Gut: Inhale to ground deeply now. Heart: Climb with loving awareness. Mind: Peak with clear knowing. Energy: Exhale to merge seamlessly.
Logic: Inhaling grounds gut deeply for stable presence; climbing heart with loving awareness connects emotionally; peaking mind with clear knowing sharpens focus; exhaling merges energy for seamless, mindful integration.
32. Gut: Label fear gently, without force. Heart: Claim hope in the present. Mind: Probe maybe curiously. Energy: Allow one-line resolution to unfold.
Logic: Gentle gut fear labeling acknowledges instincts mindfully; claiming heart hope builds strength in the moment; probing mind maybe curiously validates logic; allowing energy resolution unfolds integrated harmony.
33. Gut: Circle awareness to anchor instincts. Heart: Circle to feel emotions fully. Mind: Circle to think clearly. Energy: Own the ring with mindful presence.
Logic: Circling gut awareness anchors instincts; circling heart feels emotions fully; circling mind thinks clearly; owning energy ring with presence promotes holistic, aware integration.
34. Gut: Spill raw urges, observing freely. Heart: Spill aches as they are. Mind: Spill truths without edit. Energy: Dump uncut, watching the release.
Logic: Spilling gut urges with free observation promotes honest presence; spilling heart aches as-is releases emotions; spilling mind truths without edit insights rationally; dumping energy uncut watches clearance for agility.
35. Gut: Pause at knot, sensing it mindfully. Heart: Check flutter with gentle attention. Mind: Nod agreement in the now. Energy: Decide stall or go with awareness.
Logic: Pausing at gut knot senses reflection mindfully; checking heart flutter attends emotionally; nodding mind agreement logics presently; deciding energy stall or go aligns with aware efficiency.
36. Gut: Observe quiet gnawing unfolding. Heart: Notice soft blooming here. Mind: Watch sharpening happen. Energy: Ride the wave mindfully.
Logic: Observing gut gnawing unfolds instincts; noticing heart blooming uncovers emotions presently; watching mind sharpening hones logic; riding energy wave integrates mindfully for adaptive presence.
37. Gut: Place hand, sense fire’s location. Heart: Hand on glow, feel its stay. Mind: Hand on ice, think calmly. Energy: Link hands with present calm.
Logic: Hand on gut senses fire for drive; hand on heart feels glow for emotion; hand on mind thinks calmly; linking for calm energy promotes mindful integration and stressor handling.
38. Gut: Hear instinct roar, observe loudly. Heart: Sense passion hum warmly. Mind: Note logic click sharply. Energy: Roar into yes with awareness.
Logic: Hearing gut roar observes primal power; sensing heart hum connects warmly; noting mind click clarifies sharply; roaring energy into yes aligns actions with mindful influence.
39. Gut: Drop tether low, grounding now. Heart: Lift tether light, softly. Mind: Knot tether true, mindfully. Energy: Pull loop tight in this breath.
Logic: Dropping gut tether grounds presently; lifting heart tether uplifts softly; knotting mind tether logics truly; pulling energy loop tight resonates in breath for aware strength.
40. Gut: Squeeze then release, watching now. Heart: Drop then lift, observing. Mind: Clear static gently. Energy: Reset in mindful breath.
Logic: Squeezing gut and releasing watches freedom; dropping heart and lifting observes resilience; clearing mind static gently focuses; resetting energy in breath aligns mindfully.
41. Gut: Breathe to root deep, sensing. Heart: Breathe to open wide, feeling. Mind: Breathe to clear space, thinking. Energy: Flow unbroken, aware.
Logic: Breathing roots gut deep for sensed stability; opens heart wide for felt empathy; clears mind space for thought; unbroken energy flow integrates aware agility.
42. Gut: Label panic softly, present. Heart: Claim joy in the moment. Mind: Probe doubt curiously. Energy: Let duke out unfold mindfully.
Logic: Soft gut panic labeling manages instincts presently; claiming heart joy strengthens emotionally; probing mind doubt logics curiously; letting energy duke out unfolds mindful resolution.
43. Gut: Circle to protect this instinct. Heart: Circle to feed this emotion. Mind: Circle to guard this thought. Energy: Own circle with full awareness.
Logic: Circling protects gut instincts; feeds heart emotions; guards mind thoughts; owns energy circle for fully aware holistic integration.
44. Gut: Drip first truth, observing. Heart: Drip next ache, sensing. Mind: Drip last reason, noting. Energy: Flood raw, mindfully.
Logic: Dripping gut truth observes honesty; dripping heart ache senses release; dripping mind reason notes insight; flooding raw energy unblocks mindfully for transformation.
45. Gut: Stop at twist, aware now. Heart: Feel skip in presence. Mind: Decide match gently. Energy: Freeze or fly with observation.
Logic: Stopping at gut twist reflects awarely; feeling heart skip pulses presently; deciding mind match logics gently; choosing energy freeze or fly observes integration.
46. Gut: Sense slow churning emerging. Heart: Notice quick fluttering. Mind: Watch bright sparking. Energy: Stir the mix mindfully.
Logic: Sensing gut churning emerges depths; noticing heart fluttering reveals dynamics; watching mind sparking ignites ideas; stirring energy mixes mindfully for agile presence.
47. Gut: Hand down to sink, feeling. Heart: Hand up to rise, sensing. Mind: Hand side to balance, thinking. Energy: Sync pulses with awareness.
Logic: Hand down sinks gut feelingly; hand up rises heart sensingly; hand side balances mind thinkingly; syncing energy pulses integrates awarely.
48. Gut: Pull hard, hold? Observe. Heart: Pull soft, lean? Feel. Mind: Pull smart, check? Note. Energy: Pull together wins, present.
Logic: Hard gut pull observes hold; soft heart pull feels lean; smart mind pull notes check; pulling energy together wins presently for aligned interactions.
49. Gut: String drops to ground, anchoring. Heart: String rises to lift, softly. Mind: String binds to link, clearly. Energy: Vibrate full, mindfully.
Logic: String dropping anchors gut ground; rising lifts heart softly; binding links mind clearly; vibrating full energy resonates mindfully for adaptability.
50. Gut: Grip tight then loosen, watching. Heart: Fall low then climb, sensing. Mind: Hiss loud then mute, noting. Energy: Snap back whole with presence.
Logic: Gripping gut and loosening watches flexibility; falling heart and climbing senses resilience; hissing mind and muting notes calm; snapping energy back whole aligns with presence.